Provocations for Santa's thought (or whoever reads us):
- What is a family for you?
- What are families' roles in society?
- How do those differ from one society to another and why?
- What can we do to help scapegoats of families, in practical terms (besides calling them masochists or making them responsible for what they are not)?
- How to break negative ties?
- What is psychological violence?
- What are the limits for family agression?
- Who establishes them?
- What chances outside the family?
- How can our basic belonging needs be met otherwise, for the society to benefit from us, our talents and qualities as fully functional and happy human beings?
- How good and helpful is our global human family? Ask family scapegoats.
- What can be done, which hasn't been done until now?
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A family is a nucleus of people that have a common history and have been raised together in the same way.
A family's role in society is to produce members that help and aid other members of society.
These roles should ot differ from one society to another.
We can help scapegoats by believing them, listening to them and trying to stop the scapegoater by acknowledging to the scapegoater that we know what is going on now.
I think the only way to break a negative tie is to just stop letting them into your life. Ignore them. If they persist call the police and get a restraining order.
Psychological violence is when someone twists and controls your mind without or with you knowing it.
There should be no family agression.
Each member of the family is responsible for stopping either their or another member of the familys agression.
Many chances outside the family. One just has to force oneself outside of the family and find them.
We must find the groups or singles that encourage our own goodness, our talents and qualities that are good.
I don't think that the global human family is functioning fully until they are made aware that this problem exists.
We must make people aware of this problem through media and lectures (perhaps in schools).
Very wise comment. I agree totally.
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